Now Ladies I can’t have a blog without a little relationship advice to put in my two cents worth.
I recently came across an article in Cosmopolitan magazine with a headline that I found interesting
“Why men love Power- Hungry women.”
The concept is that men today have grown used to seeing women in positions of authority – doctors, lawyers, businesswomen and are not intimidated but instead turned on by those qualities.
Cosmo gives three reasons why:
Give him something to think about
Men like to be kept on their toes, the key is not to control but challenge him
Flaunt your ambition
Know what you want and let him know your plans, be it a promotion or a recent job offer. Men find passion in an Independent spirit and women who make the most of their lives.
Tell them straight ,don’t frustrate them with interpretations they don’t want to work that hard.
So ladies the key to win his heart is through your own personal succeess, work on yourself and everything else will fall in place.
Think of your relationships in the past that may not have worked, maybe he wanted you to be more assertive and in control, taking charge of your life. Men are turned on by powerful women- Neyo sang about it in ‘Ms Independent’ as well as Jaime Foxx’s ‘She’s got her own’.
A woman like that has the power to keep the flame alive just look at Chris Brown and Rihanna, Brad and Angelina, Will and Jada and our own Bunji and Faye Ann. The proof is in the pudding.
Food for thought ladies….. and guys you too!
Click on this link to read the entire article.
Let me know if you agree.